When my father went into the hospial on Labor day, I told him I wasn't ready to be an orphan. And although I knew I would never be ready, when his time came, I told him I would be ok and it was time for him be with Judy again. A moment later, he was gone. 

I believe my father defined what it meant to be a good man. Although he wasn't perfect, he had the heart of a good man. And with that heart, he lived, he learned, and he grew to become the understanding and loving man I knew. 

 He believed himself an optimist and to always have a positive outlook. And that's how he lived his life. He didn't let the tough times define him.  Instead, he found ways to make them positive always moving forward as a better person. I can only hope we all, including myself, find a way to live by his example. 

When he married Judy and added her four children to his family, he didn't think twice about it. He had matured and knew what he wanted, a best friend, Judy, and to build a family he would care for and love. Over the years, it was his family who gave him the most happiness and we all have so many cherished memories to share with each other.

 I never dreamed I would have my own home, yet, becuase of my father's caring and giving nature, I have one. In fact, he left me with everything I needed to remain safe and secure. It's because of him, I feel incredibly blessed and I will always be greatful. 

Among his many attributes, Caring, Understanding, Giving, Dedication, and Loyalty are the ones that shine the most for me. He was the only constant in my life. The only person who understood my struggles and accepted me as I am. The only person there for me, no matter what. The only person to show me how it felt to be family. 

Not only have I lost a father, I've lost the last person in this world who geniuienly loved me unconditionally. It's an undescribable void that will never be filled again as long as I'm alive.  

So until we are together again Dad, Thank you and know that I love you. Know that I find peace in knowing you are whole again with those you love.